LOVE

What is love? Love is a beautiful feeling. Love is, connection between individuals. It could be motherly love, family love, friends love etc. Love is something which cannot be expressed. If i say for me what love is? then it is my mother. Different people feel different connections with different people.Out of this, one of the most discussed topic is Teenage love.


The kind of love which is developed in romantic relationships between two individuals. Teenage love is basically just an attraction. We see someone and we develop feelings. Till (13-22 age) we go through many changes physically, mentally and psychologically. In this age, they get attracted easily for anything. They want to try new things. By coming and with trying of new things they actually get self aware.


As we know that in this age, they keep on learning new things. This kind of age is most difficult for parents because they have to handle them very carefully. We know that kids of this age are very stubborn. By scolding them, slapping them, interrupting for everything, this is not a right solution. Parents need to handle them with care. The first and foremost thing for a parent is that at this age, parents should become there best friends. They should keep track on them but in smart manner. They should talk to them, explain the good and bad consequences.


Love now a days is just a lust bean. Even if we talk about teenage love or adult love, Love has just become a show off. And in between this, the most common evil is now a days: social networking sites and smartphones. Everything has its good or bad sides. We know that how we have become slaves of this new technology. It is not only affecting adults but majorly it is affecting the kids of today's world. 



A study was conducted that nearly 70% of teenage kids use social networking sites everyday. Some of the kids make there ID's by hiding from there parents. Due to this crime rate is increasing day by day. They are always curious to try new things and sometimes this curiosity becomes evil for them. Kids of these days are smart enough but still they get trapped into major problems which result in stress, depression in early ages.

Love at early ages is not sensible according to me. They are not much responsible to handle the consequences and the most important thing is that they are not aware of judging what is good or bad for them.



I will discuss some major teenage love problems:



IMMATURITY
Teenagers are young and inexperienced, while they think they know what's the best, a parent can see emotional destruction long before the teen feels it. This immaturity both of experience and emotion can cause teens to think they are in love when they are in fact obsessed. This obsession can cause teens to experience low self-esteem, devastation and depression when the relationship ends.


PRESSURE

A teen may feel pressure to do things that she doesn't want to do while in a relationship. A boyfriend may ask her to go places or do things to prove that she "loves" him, or she may do things because it seems as if the rest of her friends are participating. Talking to your teenager about how to say no and when to leave a situation can help her understand when she is being pressured. The Guttmacher Institute notes that nearly half of American teens are sexually active, and too often this is the result of pressure.

EDUCATION

A teen relationship, even a casual one, can wreak havoc on your teen's grades. Spending time with his girlfriend and neglecting homework, or even skipping school together, can take his focus off the important things and cause his grades to slip. Your teen should understand that relationships are a privilege, and that his education comes first.

DEPENDENCY AND SELF-WORTH

Too often teens enter into a relationship before they love even themselves, which turns into dependency. Kimiberly Kirberger, author of "Teen Love: On Relationships, A Book for Teenagers," urges teens to learn more about themselves, cultivate their personalities and find their self-esteem before attempting a relationship. The first love is with the person that your teen sees in the mirror. If she enters a relationship without that confidence, it won't be long before she begins to believe that her worth is only as half of a teen couple.

SOCIAL STATUS

Being part of a couple can alter your teen's social status at school. He might feel like he's not popular unless he's with his girlfriend, or a girl could be given an "easy" label because she dates a lot. Unfortunately, social status means almost everything to a teenager, so when his social status is raised or lowered because of his relationship, he'll experience an artificial boost in self-confidence, or feel badly about himself because of his status.



Last but not the least choose your love wisely at the right age, right time because your happiness is the most important thing.